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The *New* Rules of this NG have become..............

....inconsistent.

I was *officially* reprimanded by some folks here for posting a non political article about a current event. Everyone participating in the discussion offered reasonable comments and there were not flames. OK. Fair enough. This is a boating NG.

I continue to read numerous posts/threads about cameras, photography, dogs, pigs, etc. (non boating). However, I read no reprimands about those posts.

A bit confusing. Very inconsistent.

Could someone please explain what the new and improved *rules* of this NG are?

Jan 11
2006
When I was in high school a teacher once said, "The three topics to walk softly/avoid even with friends with were sex, politics and religion.

Capt Jack R..

Jack
Jan 12
What I have noticed is that a few of the absolute idiots who plagued this newsgroup have for the most part left. Harry
Jan 12
Can I get a big amen to that, brothers and sisters. JIMinFL
Jan 12
Here we go again, Jim is doing his damnest to flame me. It starts with him calling me kevin, then goes on from there. Next he'll be lying about others, etc. atl_man2
Jan 12
Then quit name calling and personal attacking, Jim. atl_man2
Jan 12
>I've seen my share of electrical fires. He claims he never had one. :-)

=

I've seen the after effects of a few on boats. Not pretty.

Wayne.B
Jan 12
The "marina/newsgroup analogy" has been used before, but its not the same animal.

Usenet is set up like a newspaper (that's why people call Usenet machines "news-servers", and the reading programs "news-readers), as it has specific "sections", if you will. How would you like to read about finances in the sports pages of your newspaper? What if you had to wade through the classifieds, to find the weather? Wouldn't be much of a paper, would it.

It is inappropriate, against Usenet etiquette, and rude to post off-topic in any group, especially when there is a group specific to the OT post...like politics.

It seems things may have improved over recent months...I think Ill turn off my filters and kill file, and see what's up first hand. I too would love to see rec.boats as it is intended. __

"It's just about going fast...that's all..."

http://home.columbus.rr.com/ckg/

Netsock
Jan 12
I agree, and hope we could add 'personal attacks' to the list! JohnH
Jan 12
How about "practice what you preach", Kevin? Notice the clever use of those fancy quotation marks? Dan
Jan 12
com> penned the following well considered thoughts to the readers of Gene
Jan 12
Who are you quoting? Don
Jan 12
I was thinking the exact same thing Dan. Kevin has flamed me several times today.

"Do unto others." How funny.

Jan 11
I think this needs to be said.

I've been a subscriber to rec.boats since 1995. For the most part it has been a very enjoyable experience. I've enjoyed the boating discussions, sea stories, tall tales, humor plus the more than occasional "Off Topic" discussions that amount to nothing but dock chat. Although I've never met most of the participants, the names are all like old friends.

Many times the NG has provided entertainment that you just couldn't find anywhere else. Who can forget the famous bilge pump debates between Marcus and Mrs. B.?

Unfortunately, the political side of things invested itself during the election of 2000. Certain people have never let it go - and the political infection of rec.boats took root. This, singularly, has been the primary reason for the deterioration of the group during the past 7-8 years, IMOH.

The attempt to return to "boating" only discussions will never work, because rec.boats was never only about boating. It was an internet based comradely of people who shared a common root interest but enjoyed the discussion and humor of all subjects, very much like the social environment at the dock or marina.

Like every other social group though, you gotta leave politics and religion out of it. If we all simply did that - this NG would be fine.

Eisboch

Eisboch
Jan 11
Serious unmoderated groups should be self-moderating.

Eisboch

Eisboch
Jan 11
I agreeto a point.

There have been several political discussions here over the past several days that were perfectly civil. It can be done.

However I generally agree that eventually discussions about politics and religion can and most likely will become heated. That is a universal truth.

All I am trying to do is to get folks to see that it does not all have to be about boatsleave out the personal attacks, flames and trolling and we will be fine, regardless if we talk about pigs, cameras, computers or sex offenders set free.

And except for a few repeat offenders we have proven we can do it.

So let's stop the netcopping. Let's ignore those who continue to fan the flames and personally attack. Let's not force topics to make sure they contain the word boat in them. Let's get back to being an interesting NG that can civilly discuss most every issue, boating related or not.

OK?

Jan 11
Very well said! And it did need to be said. I'd further point out that those OT political threads encouraged increased participation by some very unhealthy elements. Look no further than the most prolific "contributors" over the last couple days... I think we can easily ID those who clearly don't understand the difference between having something interesting to say and feeling the need to say something. One single poster issued 57 posts over the last 2 days but said absolutely nothing. Sadly, the most prolific posters to rec.boats today also seem to be the most intellectually challenged.

-- Skipper

Skipper
Jan 11
"Like every other social group though, you gotta leave politics and > religion out of it. > If we all simply did that - this NG would be fine." Reggie
Jan 11
Well said, Richard. I date back to early 1998 in this group, and I agree with your observations entirely. There is no question that politics is the poison that turned this forum into its ugly self and has caused so many terrific regulars to quietly (and some not so quietly) disappear. It's been very difficult in recent times for me to stick around. This place was crazier than a bag of hammers in the late 90's, but immensely fun. But once the politics of the 2000 general election took center stage, it's just never been the same. Like you say, there's just certain highly charged subjects that it's just not good common social sense to discuss in mixed company. The outcome of such banter is 100% predictable, and rarely pretty. RG
Jan 11
(rest snipped)

I just remembered who you are. Saw your boat pic over in the other NG. Russ, right?

When I was first setting up the "Boats of rec.boats" web site, way back when, you sent you boat pic with a request for "Summer Wind" as the background music. I got a big kick out of doing it because I also found and posted the lyrics.

Eisboch

Eisboch
Jan 11
Busted. RG
Jan 11
Excellent. No politics, no religion. Let's add it to the charter (the unwritten one of course).

Can we all agree?

Wayne.B
Jan 11
There are no rules, silly. It's an unmoderated group.

Of course, some of us observe the common courtesy of putting an OT in the subject line when we post off-topic threads like this one.

NOYB
Jan 11
Agreed.
Jan 11
Where's the rest of my post? JohnH
Jan 11
????

You're combining two different comments, if I'm not mistaken. You might consider constructing your message a bit more carefully so that people don't think you are representing those two combined remarks as a single "reprimand."

I take credit for statement #2. If it was preceded by statement #1, I must have been out of my mind at the moment (always a possiblity) as I don't remember making statement #1, at least not in the same post as statement #2.

It's not a reprimand, it's a helpful suggestion. You must have felt very passionately about the issue to introduce a subject that (according to your own thread title) was certain to make people "mad". Had you followed the link I provided, you would have found hundreds of people equally mad about sex criminals and a huge number who would have expressed feelings consistent with your own. Nobody condones the sexual victimization of others, most especially children. Why start a thread that you admit is going to make people mad? Wouldn't it make more sense to discuss sex crimes with a group of people who have come together for that exact purpose?

This forum is supposed to be about recreational boating. We have raped and abused it so badly in the past that we must surely be on the "habitual offenders list". :-)

chuckgould.chu...
Jan 11
Why not post some interesting stuff about boats, Chuck? Most of us are willing to take your word that you have carefully checked out your "sex criminal" links. Harry
Jan 11
Not by the variety of posts I read here.

But who cares, as long as there is no name calling and personal attacks. Stop this and you have accomplished something.

Heck, even today someone who suggested a kinder and gentler "do unto others.." approach personally attacked me a couple of times.

Go figure.

Jan 11
There certainly is a long list of offenders (including me). I stopped reading the group due to the political baloney. Does anyone really think hearts and minds are going to be changed ?

Anyway, perhaps you could bring me up to date on the change of tone. Things looked hopeless for a long time.

One thing... I'm suprised that Harry is jabbing you in the ribs.

He's the number one detractor IMHO.

WaIIy
Jan 11
Hi Wally, welcome back. Yes, for the most part the tone of the group has changed because most are sick of the vicious name-calling etc. of a month ago. Chuck Gould presented a challenge, and many of us signed up for it.

We're trying hard to do away with the personal attacks.

JohnH
Jan 11
Harry is suffering from some withdrawal symptoms and there are always a few who'd like to see him fall off the wagon. I'm hoping he'll continue to take it one day at a time and prove them wrong. Wayne.B
Jan 11
Harry has shown much restraint, and as long as he stays the course, he will prove all of his detractors wrong. That might be the best revenge. Reggie
Jan 11
Sorry, but I am not suffering withdrawal symptoms. The reality is, I have no more patience for those who exhibit "holier than thou" behavior than those who exhibit right-wing hypocrisy. Harry
Jan 11
Poor Wally. Still. Harry
Jan 11
Not sure if you are referring to Chuck or myself. I think Chuck is very sincere in his efforts, hopefully I am also. I'd really like to see more focus on boating here, and less of the personal chat room flame war junk. Wayne.B
Jan 11
I'm not referring to you or Chuck, individually, but, rather, to a "behavior."

The other day, Chuck came after me with both barrels blazing. I thought it rather humorous, since he's been trying to sell something else here, and his post was just the opposite of what he's been selling. I didn't answer him in kind, of course.

As I have stated, I am not a fan of holier than thou or or hypocrisy.

Harry
Jan 11
How about *do unto others as you would have them do unto you*? One of your problems, Jim, is that you preach to the choir, then don't heed your own advice. atl_man2
Jan 11
Gosh, could you post the official reprimand?

Here:

Suggested new and improved rules---

1.Be nice. 2. When a thread becomes acrimonious, acerbic, or filled with asperity, move on. 3. As political threads soon lead to 2, above, don't start them.

JohnH
Jan 11
I agree with that line! JohnH
Jan 11
   

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